Is this controlling/abusive behavior

I was telling the guy I’ve been talking to (6months, but we aren’t together) about how my mom was saying I don’t wear enough clothes. (Personally, I don’t feel my clothes are even that bad - the “trashiest” thing I’ve worn all summer is biker shorts with a regular tshirt. Or a lace tank top under a sweater.) He said that she’s right and that he feels like I “barely wear anything”. He was saying that he “prefers a conservative woman”, how “if you can see everything before you take it off that it kills the curiousity”, and how even tho he won’t tell his girl how to dress, he believes it shows about her and helps him make a decision. So I asked him if he’s hinting that he wants me to dress differently then and he said it doesn’t matter and that he was just “teasing me”.

Later in the night, he was asking what I was doing for the night. We both got invited to a party and he went. I was explaining how one of my friends blew me off over not responding for 20 minutes, how I was waiting for other friends to respond to possibly make plans, and how I might stop by while waiting for them, just to say hi. He immediately accused me of hanging out with a guy and said that if that was the case, he didn’t wanna see me or look at what I was wearing because he’d “be annoyed”. When I was showing him that it wasn’t guys, he put the eye roll emoji and told ME to chill out.