Am I insensitive for trying to show my boyfriend what real human trafficking is

My boyfriend is technically a trafficking victim but not really. Legal wise only because his mom was charged with it. My boyfriend's mom could not handle him when he was 3. He had undiagnosed autism. His mom made the decision to "rehome" him. But went about it super weird. She found some guy online who said him and his wife wanted a child. It was not done legally. She just gave him my boyfriend. The only reason it was considered human trafficking is because they paid her 10,000. Had they not given her money then it wouldn't be trafficking. In fact it would have technically been legal in their state. As far as they know he was never harmed and he was removed less than a week later because her sister reported her. They all only got trafficking charges because there was a payment. As for the guy. Turns out his wife wasn't even living with him. She did know he would "adopt" kids this way online. But there's no evidence there was a full on sex trafficking ring. So while yes he technically was trafficked, nothing happened to him. Plus he was 3. He doesn't even remember. He's not traumatized. So for him to say he was a trafficking victim I think is a spit in the face to real human trafficking victims. So I showed him a YouTube video of someone talking to trafficking victims. I told him what these women went through is REAL trafficker. I've actually been assaulted in my life and I get the technicality but I dont think it's fair for him to call himself a victim. Maybe I'm wrong I'm crazy but he doesn't know what it feels like to be held down and fucked against your will.

Edit: I really wasn't trying to upset anybody and I'm sorry if I did. For years people, especially men have downplayed my sexual assault and I know other women feel that way. I just feel like it's weird that he calls himself a victim without being victimized. Of course being abandoned by your mom is traumatic but nothing compares to the trauma of rape imo

Edit 2: I never said they gave him back. Her rights were terminated because of the sex trafficking charges and he went to live with a couple foster families until his aunt got a place of her own and she took custody and adopted him when he was 9