He lets everyone at our house, any hour of the night

Would this annoy you?

My husband lets his friends and brothers at our house any hour of the night. They even showed up when I wasn’t even 48 hrs postpartum because they wanted to see the baby

I told my husband how upset I was about it. I was being too ‘stingy’

His friends and family are over every night it seems like. There’s never a night to our self.

Every time we go out, they have to go. It’s a revolving door

They also play basketball every night 10pm- 2am. I tell him how frustrating it is and he says, “you’re not my mom”

We have four kids…. It would be nice if he helped. Instead he wants to take them out with him until 10-2 am

I put my foot down and said no… they need to be in bed. But I’m the ‘bad guy’

Also, he called to let my know his brother was having a cookout at our house with his friends. Makes me so mad… and passed my house and they were there so went to Walmart and passed it again and they weren’t… so I went home, opened the door to find meat on my table.

He went inside… no warning.. apparently my husband gave him a key 😭 I’m a introvert… I hate this!