How to get working Dad’s to do night wake ups?

Ladies… how did you get them to do this? My husband has had the “no point in us both being tired” attitude. I’m not expecting him to get up all night long but maybe one time would be extremely helpful! My kiddo has been a terrible sleeper since 9 months old. I did all the night wake ups during the newborn phase and till now. Pedi says waking at night is totally normal even up to 5/6 years old.

I’m a SAHM and I know it not a “job” as I’m constantly reminded by friends/family that work for a living. But after a couple years of this it’s wearing on me. My husband says for the next one that he’ll help more but I’m EXTREMELY doubtful. Also, how do you handle the newborn nights with a toddler that’s still wakes up during the night? My husband is a manager at his company so I know he needs more rest to function and make a living for us to live.