Problems

I need some advice. I been with my girlfriend for nearly 6 months ( it’s a same sex relationship ) and there’s just things now that bug me.

Sex.. I feel like there’s no emotional connection, she never initiates it, cause she said she’s never had to… and then she gets all weird about it if I say something about it. We have spoken about things we both like sexually so many times but she never does anything I like? And it’s really starting to get to me, like kissing. She said she isn’t a big kisser, and she legit just wants to put her fingers in me and no kissing is involved.. or any fooling around before that… I have told her I don’t like that.. so many times but nothing changes. I haven’t never seen her fully naked in day light cause she is self conscious. If she has shaved down there and it’s been 1-2 days after shaving I can’t touch her .. she never goes down on me as much as she use to say she would in the beginning of the relationship.

Sometimes I get really drained on the phone to her cause she just talks about herself the whole time .. and I even say “ I’m just waiting for you to ask about my day” and she will say “ oh I thought I did”.. like no, you haven’t .

Just the smallest things are starting to give me the feeling that I’m not happy anymore and I don’t know what to do. I feel a bit lost.. she is a good person and she does treat me good, but these are the things that are really getting to me, and before you say you need to communicate them.. I HAVE!! Many times!!