So my period is late by 6 days now. I was on the pill (oc), and I was taking the iron pills for my period. I spotted a little on days 1 and 2, but never full period like usual. I'm 23 and my family is very fertile... but I didn't know it would be like this? I'm a little stressed, I don't know much about babies or kids, but I'd love to be a mama.

I just officially moved in with my boyfriend of 4 years, and it's been wonderful. He's definitely the man I would want kids with... and I know he asked my dad for his blessing... but we aren't engaged or married. He's a little older than me, and has a secure, good paying job. He said he wants to provide for me and a family. He is very respectful, caring, and attentive. I know I want to start a family- I just didn't know it would be now. I'm scared to pick up a test because people seem very judgmental here if you don't have a ring 💍 in DE (I'm from PA.) I'm wondering if anyone here has a similar experience or any advice.. I'm scared to tell anyone anything.

I'm also stressed because I graduated but never got a secure job in my field.. (I have a little side job for graphic design).. so starting this new life would put my dream career on hold (which I'm okay with that!!!!!!) BUT I'm seeing more and more shaming of full time moms who don't get a good paying, professional, and secure job as soon as the kids are old enough. How will I ever keep up in this crazy world. I might have to switch my career path? My boyfriend wants to support me and our potential family fully, and he has the means to do that... I just don't want to be lazy or not contribute enough... I'm trying to see 20 years down the line.