Anyone better off single for life?

So i came to a realization that i want to be single forever. I have 2 babies. Not that i got fucked over and cheated on so many times, I just want to love myself now for the rest of my life and also I noticed i am not good in relationships either so i dont care about having someone with me and living with me .. i just love being alone doing stuff on my own, without anyone telling me not to do it or what to do or what to make for lunch dinner breakfast… like no.. im happier without anyone. I am not being selfish either , its just what i want in my life and i am happy… not saying either i will mess around out there or date or anything… im not even goiing to do that at all. Its just me myself and i and my 2 babies. Thats all. Anyone else can give me advice or anyone out there single for awhile and loving it .. tell me the pros and cons..