I feel like my son has lost his mind

My son is 13 and we used to be close. He used to be really family oriented and he's started pulling away from family. He's into girls now and he also has started rolling his fucking eyes. I hate that. It's disrespectful. His feelings are all over the place. I know he's probably starting to go through changes now but they're driving me crazy. His emotions switch so badly. He went from being mad at me because I made him take out to trash when he was trying to play video games to crying. And he's not a very sensitive kid. He's also had some anxiety issues lately. Not bad enough to where I think he needs to see someone, just noticable. I wish I could just speed past puberty because it's hell on wheels.