Hi, im not sure how to start this but I'm looking for advice and opinions on something. So my oldest daughters dad and I share custody, he has a girl friend that he's been with for a little over a year. Ever since they started dating maybe like two months in, I can not have any communication with just him or see him etc... We have to be in a texting group, between him, myself and his girl friend. Even then he rarely ever answers me back when I say something, it's almost always her, even if it's a question that only he should be answering or whatever. Like also for example just the other day I had texted him asking for his input on the school testing our daughter for things, he replies back saying this should be a question for both of us not just him. He doesn't even show up for her school conferences because they wanted a separate appointment without me there. I guess I'm just asking is this a little overboard and controlling or am I just overreacting? And how would you handle this or would you say anything in general?