My husband and I haven’t had our own place since 2020. With the price of everything going up literally cannot afford a place we’ve been stuck living with my in laws . That has not been great. Between my in laws literally trying to dictate my parenting , nagging and complaining about every little thing. This March I packed me and my daughters things from a blow up with my father in law. My husband was gone on a truck driving gig . At that point I had endured enough . I had been telling my husband I couldn’t do it and that we had to get out . I went and started looking up housing and all types of stuff but my husband was to prideful and acted as if that’s beneath us. I ended up giving up on it and let it go . He wouldn’t even give me his in for to put on an application. I moved back home with my parents and was trying to figure out where do I go from there . My husband then moves to his home state and began to tell me like he had for years sweet nothings of how he’s gonna get this job making a certain amount of money and everything is gonna work out… I don’t believe it until I see it because that’s what he always say. Now fast forward to now . His parents basically got kicked out the house they were renting because the owners raised the rent and was remodeling . Oh did I mention they don’t have jobs because my mother in law who has 3 degrees quit her teaching job because she didn’t like the principal . My father in law quit his job on a military base because he didn’t want the covid vaccine and didn’t want to be drug tested 🌚. So they had to move in with family . NOW my in laws are moving back to there home state along with my husband and he is telling me we all getting a house together temporarily so everyone can “save” . He tells me depending on how WE do down there with saving will get us own our own . I cannot for my sanity and peace cannot and will not do that . I suffered enough with his family . Not to mention this thanksgiving was hell . He literally was upset I took our daughter to VA to visit my sister because he doesn’t trust anyone driving but yet he’s cool with his dad driving us 9 hours to visit him for Christmas. For 3 years straight I haven’t spent Christmas with my family . If it was just me my husband and daughter cool but no it’s us and HIS family every year and I’m so tired of it . This is just a piece of the crap I’ve taken. We have so many different views on everything . It wasn’t like this before . He’s changed so much . I haven’t no idea sometimes who he is . At this point I’m so scared to leave because I don’t wanna fail my daughter but at the same time I have my daughter 100% . Every time he left I had her and pick up the pieces . And when I say leave meaning working . But he didn’t have to do truck driving he wanted to . When I had no job for 7 months he didn’t look out for me not once . My whole family took care of me . Every now and then he sent money to get diapers or he’d buy them. I’m tired . If you were in my situation would you leave and hope for change or divorce in it’s entirety