Ok so I had sex with someone we have talked on and off for about 4 years. and now I realize that I really like him after we did it . He’s so smart he’s a chemical engineer,so funny ,fun , I spend most of the time with him just laughing. He has a good job I find him so handsome . We did it and omg he was so nice the whole time . How do I cut him off cause I don’t know what he wants and I do t want to tell him to then feel stupid ? It really sucks cause he is the first guy to have a good head On his shoulders everyone else I dated didn’t even know what to do in life. Not saying I like him cause he makes good money is that at 28 I need someone who is stable and can hold their own . However like I said is hard cause his family is Muslim from Iraq I’m catholic from Colombia and I can tell that that will bother his family. This situation sucks .