Tmi, but dont know whom to ask. So I am now 14 weeks and we havent had sex since the very start... its my first pregnancy and I wanted to wait a few days after the test just not to get any infection or cold. And I was ready to try at 6 weeks but the same day I got pink spotting and later was only worse and ended up at hospital with hematoma at 8 weeks, doctor said no sex. How do I help my hubby with all his needs? I can see hes hurt and feels unwanted. I went down on him like 2 times because its difficult for me too as my sex drive is getting only higher since week 10 and as he touches me I can hardly resist him and it hurts like physically down there like im going to explode. Its the first week I dont have any spotting so I hope we soon can enjoy sex again after asking my doctor. But what do you think could I do for him now ? I got to the point where every day without sex feels like month and I guess he feels the same or worse...

Edit: dont get me wrong, he waits and doesn't push me to do anything. Id like to do something for him myself its not him asking for anything. Im just scared that I wont resist or going down on him will "hurt" me as my libido getting higher now.