My newborn spent almost a month in NICU after birth and once he came home he had A TON of trouble with his stomach after every feed. Unfortunately I didn’t get into a routine of doing tummy time with him because it always caused him to spit up. Now he’s 3 months old as of yesterday and I’m terrified about him getting behind.

I’m having a lot of trouble getting him to enjoy tummy time and do much other than cry about it. I’m also worried because even though he has no trouble finding himself up he does seem to have trouble using his arms. He always wants to try to use his legs. Dr told me to hold his butt down which I do. He still doesn’t want to use his arms. He basically does planks anytime he’s on his stomach and mostly leaves his arms behind him at his sides. Help!