So with my first baby visitors we're not allowed due to COVID being really bad (he was born in 2020). Which I was fine with because I just wanted the moment to be between me and the father and we did video chat people and send pictures but that was it.

With my 2nd baby visitors we're allowed and there wasn't a limit because it was a different hospital and it was also last year when COVID wasn't as bad. So we allowed visitors freely.

With this baby I kind of don't want visitors (we're having her at the same hospital as our first). I just want it to be me and the dad and her since its our last baby. My bio mom however isn't keen to that idea. She messaged me and was asking how I was doing only to bring up how my husband didn't want her there for our first sons birth and how she won't be there for this one.

I don't want any drama but I also don't want visitors this time around (to be fair we have until July to decide everything) and it seems all she is doing is playing victim. Last month I went to the ER afraid I was having a miscarriage and I talked to her hoping she'd talk to me and tell me it was fine, but all she did was talk about how they weren't allowed in our kids life and won't be allowed in this ones life. (The door is always open they just don't make the effort)

So now I'm irritated 😒