For almost a month I’ve gently hinted/asked like 2-3x my bf if we could go on a date since it’s been over a month from our last one. He’s been gone here and there for work stuff and family situations and I’ve been really good at being his support and giving space and coming his way. But when he’s been home and rested we don’t do anything but hide out at his place or go to the burger joint across from his apartment. When I communicated how it’s been making me feel unwanted/not appreciated, instead of having a simple adult conversation how to reciprocate better or fix the small problem he said he wants to break up because he can’t give me a date. Keep in mind I’m a low effort girl, just taking a walk around the park or trying out a new coffee joint is all I ask for, just simple quality time and knowing him on a deeper level (away from his place) I was confused what he meant by saying that and he just said I can’t give you that…and then out of the blue how he’s also not over his ex of almost 3 years ago who he dumped?? And admits he’s emotionally unavailable? But in the same breath was telling me how he wants something serious with me and all these futuristic plans just a few days prior. Total switch up. I feel bad now for asking for a date and should have kept my mouth shut or else we’d still be together rn 😞 I feel I ruined all of this. I invested so much into him for several months never asking or expecting anything in return and this is what I get instead. What is wrong with me?? He’s already on a dating app a week later post break up and can’t help but think he’s giving the new girl better treatment or she’s his dream girl. I had nothing but the purest intentions for this guy and he led me on and discarded me like I was nothing. And things were great in the beginning too! I just miss him but I know he doesn’t by his knee jerk actions.