Hi ladies, this is my first pregnancy and never made it past 14 weeks. I’m currently just 25 weeks and the entire pregnancy I’ve been told left right and centre that ‘gosh you’re small’ ‘I’ve seen someone today who is double what you are’ ‘blimey you’re carrying very small’ ‘you’re probably going to have a small baby’ ‘I’ve seen more weight on my mate down the pub’ .. my MIL even made me stand up in front of the family to show them I haven’t got a bump.

Honestly the list goes on.. I’ve even been in tears writing this. I know women suffer with comments about being too big but this being small has seriously affected me. Not only do I feel like I’m carrying small but I also have a b belly bump so I don’t even have that lovely round bump feeling.. I just feel fat.

The photo doesn’t even do it justice, when I put my clothes on you can’t even tell that I have a bump for 6 months pregnant… I don’t have my next midwife appointment for 2 weeks where I will raise it and I know every woman carries different but I feel like I’m crushing my baby in there 😔😔 I can’t describe how much it’s made this pregnancy tough. Did anyone else carry small at 25 weeks.