2015 met the father of my 3 children now 7, &1.5!

He proposed immediately -flag#1

Without a ring -flag #2

His personality was a rollercoaster ride from the get go I even forgave his cheating bc we’d been together only 3wks.. flag #3

Fast fw 9yrs gone by here’s the satiation:

I’m a sahm /hardest job l ever done and I used to work with the wolfs on Wall Street…which sounds like a nice VA at this point!

He’s got his business, everything’s in his name, I never cared in the beginning because you do it FOR THE LOVE… flag #4

Our daily routine goes a little like this:

5am I’m up with the kids he’s gone to the gym 5-8

8am I drop off the older kids to school with baby

He gets home takes a long bath (he works from home)

I’m running the baby’s schedule alone.

Sometimes he picks up from school.. while I try to put baby to nap and maybe shower or do laundry, but pick up & drop off is my job as SAHM according to him.

3pm kids are home I give them snacks do hw check ups take them to afterschool activities .. sometimes he does this sporadically..

5;30 I make dinner feed baby (he makes HIS dinner eats it in his office) I eat kids left overs..

6 showers/bedtime I run this party alone too-he’s locked in his room (yes flag #5? We sleep in separate rooms, bc baby’s sleep bothers daddy.. who’s got to work the next day:))

So as I’ve put all kids to bed he’s playing oculus , rarely we watch a 45min show in silence.

I’m 100% over this bs!!! I think I’d be so much better off with just the kids, he’s also very very angry all the time! Yelling at the kids/me. We got Covid on Friday him and my middle one tested negative. He made life hell for the rest of us!! Yelling at my oldest who was fine but positive to keep a mask around the house, baby &i weren’t even allowed out of the room I had to feed him etc.. I almost called 911:(((

And cherry on top and final red flag 🚩 we’re not legally married!!!! He made sure he broke off the engagement when we moved into our forever home (so I thought)- he called me one day to tell me “honey congratulations we got our home”!- I said wait didn’t I need to sign at the closing he said “oh we’ll put your name on the deed after”.. that never happened bc he said since I’m not on the mortgage I could call off the loan if we ever broke up!!

Sorry this got too long… thanks for reading;) 🙏❤️