Can my relationship be saved

My husband and I have been married two years. We just bought a house together. We don’t have any children. My family and his family are close, my family loves him, and they are about as close with him as they are to me, and vice versa for me and his family. We are having some big marital issues. It’s at the point where we just argue about stupid things that are probably not worth an argument. It’s just that he is so incredibly mean about the smallest things. I know it’s my fault too, it takes two to tango. But the way he has handled things has just made me feel so strange. I’m constantly on my toes because he is angry at me every single day. The other day we had an argument over literally nothing, it was about a difference of opinion in about a particular Bible verse and what the meaning of it was. It got to the point where he was so mean and I felt so defensive so I was fighting back and it just kept going back and fourth. I left and I sat in my car for three hours literally just bawling my eyes out. I called him crying like 3 times, trying to get him to assure me that things would be okay, that we were okay, that he still loved me. But he was still mad at me, he didn’t care that I was having a panic attack. I really felt like something died in me. I still wanted the relationship and I wanted to fight for it, and I know he does too, but he gets his anger carried away. But it felt like since that night something died in me and I’m not ever going to let him hurt me again, if he wants to leave, fine, but I’m not letting that happen again. I don’t know what to do, I know he loves me and I love him but I don’t know how we can salvage this relationship. I feel panicked because we just bought a house together, and we have this big mortgage now, if we break up my family would be devastated and I would be completely alone in this world with a big house custody issue and I have no idea what to do anymore. I feel like I’m willing to move forward with him, but I just don’t know if I can ever let me guard down around him. I want to make things work.