I’m a new mom with 16 month old, my husband recently working really hard even when he’s home with us , work just keep coming. He has these routines everyday even on weekend. He comes home always late either it’s 10pm or sometimes 12am just because his office far from home and he is kind of gym person so he would go to gym 6 out of 7 days. He doesnt even have time to play with the baby or even talk with me. I tried to talk to him about this but he would just say he cant without exercise it will make him stress and sick bla bla… or about his existance at home, he would say it’s work i have to response (which i know it’s really his work)

But on the other hand i feel lonely and angry and sad, I used to be work too but now my priorities would be my baby. What should i do? I have this fight with him about he’s working too hard and exercise thing and says he actually tired to do that everyday , and what about us? Baby is growing everyday, i grew apart with my partner , lack communication and doesnt feel like he actually care, he brings up about when he always spare time and money on weekend to go with us. He’s working for us. And he cant accept it when i told him what i feel.

What should i do?