I’m 7 months pregnant, after my 2 year relationship and ongoing with my partner (her son), I’ve just found out yesterday that she has full access to his bank account and withdraws money from his account as and when she pleases. He does not financially contribute to any savings for the baby. I am due end of April.

Struggling so much and he is refusing to set up a standing order every month for the same amount to go to his mother’s account. He did say “what works for me and my mum, will stay like that, but don’t worry, I won’t be paying her when I move out”.