Marital SA? Is that possible ?

I’ve been with my husband for 4 years now.. and we started with an amazing sex life. No complaints. As things have gone on.. he’s acquired a porn addiction and he rejects my advances more often than not.

I’m 22 weeks pregnant, I’m feeling huge, gross and was not feeling anything this morning. I gave him a back, belly & inner thigh rubs and was just snuggling since it just was nice to be cuddled for a bit. I told him I didn’t want to fool around, wasn’t feeling it or good this morning, was just trying to give him some of his favorite feel goods while I felt safe & secure. He asked why i didn’t want to, so I said why and went back to his chest.

Next thing I know, he’s having my hand do other things and has his face on mine where im just there. Can’t move. It escalated from there where it not just that and he did his.. and got off of me after he was done. It hurts to even think about typing it out. This is one out of a few times this has happened in the past year where I can’t say no, let’s wait until I’m feeling it where he got what he wanted but I don’t feel respected at all from either side. The first time he did this was 15 days after my miscarriage. Am I overthinking it? I feel like at this point, when I want to be intimate it doesn’t matter but I’m at his beck & call when he wants to be intimate, like I owe it to him as his wife. I don’t know..