Mental ilness ??

So about 2 years ago I came on here and explain how my boyfriend loses everything and he has adhd . You guys told me it’s inattentive adhd . (I wasn’t aware there was different categories) so the past 2 years my boyfriend says he was only diagnosed with adhd . ODC and anxiety. A social worker that was there when he got taken out of his mom’s custody at 2 months all the way until he was 17 told me he got diagnosed with ADHD . ODD and bipolar. Which ODD sounds about right because prior to me being told that I did realize he doesn’t follow directions at all . Even if we are making something WITH INSTRUCTIONS. he will do whatever he wants .. so another thing I explained 2 years ago on here was his delusions . I explained a few situations and you guys said psychosis. And now she’s telling me he has bipolar ?? So that makes sense but he swears he never got diagnosed with that . Okay so I understand he has adhd and loses a lot of shit but his memory to be 22 years old is garbage . He has the memory of a person with dementia. I can literally tell him something he forgets . We will lose something and we’ll finally find it . I’ll tell him where I put it at hell go and get it put it somewhere else and forget again the new place he put it . Not just that it’s just like he seriously have a memory issue .. and my guess is his adhd that is not being treated ? And here’s some more behavior issues I noticed . He starts the most shit then play victim . For example just last night we was talking about if it’ll be cheaper to live in a hotel or pay our back rent plus the rent that’s coming up (in the process of getting evicted) I simply asked if he was talking about if this agency is paying the back rent or if we was to end up getting denied . He got smart saying if they didn’t pay and I said you didn’t have to get smart he said well I’m just trying to teach you simple math . (All because I was seeing if we was talking about if the back rent was being paid by an agency or not) then 5 min later he was looking for his weed and I said you shouldn’t even wanna get high right now (he gets high loses stuff like money, sleep all day and we just can’t afford it) he called me all types of bitches and whores said he’s tired of me he don’t pay for the weed he get it for free ( I think he’s lying literally just got real disrespectful so I told him he’s pathetic and I don’t look at him as a man (which he knew for months) and e started playing victim telling me to apologize for what o said told me I was acting weird and this morning he still wanted me to apologize and I had to ask him how did this even start . He couldn’t even remember so I told him and he did the whole I get it “BUT” I cut him off and told him there’s no but you was being disrespectful first so don’t cry when I do it back . He literally gets mad at every single thing. Like the amount of times he gets mad a day isn’t normal . He thinks everyone’s out to get him or plotting on him . E live in an apartment complex . He can literally see one person at night walking to the parking lot (most likely going to their car ) and he’ll call me like “lock the doors I just seen people creeping around the house!!! There’s times where HE STARTED THE ARGUMENT then will be like “I know what your doing I’m not dumb , your doing this cause I’m about to go to jail and your trying to keep all the tax money” y’all !! I be whole forgetting about him and going to jail (he has a case he’s in the process of right now) and y’all I’m never weird about money so he’s literally just be making shit up in his head and believing it . How did I plan on you starting an argument then somehow I planned it and I’m trying to get away with tax money ??? (And money wouldn’t even be in the arguement in the first place , we can argue because he will lose something and I get mad cause I’m tired of helping him find shit) then somehow that argument transpired into some mad up shit in his head .