Feeling disconnected from husband..

Our second baby is due in June, I’ve tried anything and everything to get more one on one with my husband. Emotionally & physically. He plays on his phone or video games or calls his work buddies after work to gossip instead of talk to me or help me in any way. I’ve told him how this makes me feel. He has nothing to say back ever or he goes oh I’m such a horrible husband..

Anytime I want to be physically touched or loved on by him, he rejects me. He only wants to when he’s in the mood and it does not matter if I’m in the mood at that time or not. I’ve told him one out of the two times we had sex last month I wanted to wait, wasn’t feeling well and it didn’t stop. We have sex once, twice a month if he’s feeling froggy and prefers porn instead.

This morning I dropped him off work, he’ll be gone for 3-4 days… he ignored me trying to get him to cuddle before we got up- he was on his phone. Told me he had to get to work asap so we all get ready, he doesn’t speak to me the entire way there but expects me to hug & kiss him when we get there. Which I didn’t do so he’s mad at me now. I don’t know what else I can do. Talking doesn’t help, giving into him doesn’t help it just makes me feel worse.. just feeling shitty. He refuses therapy, doesn’t think anything is wrong. The thing is, he won’t talk to me at all probably this trip unless he needs money- for me to transfer money into checking.