So Thursday is the 29th February.... ive been with my partner 9 amazing months and we joke that we are living in dog years or something as it feels we have been together so much more than that! When i separated and divorced my exhusband in 2020, after years of trying for a baby and was left to take the blame and burden of my failing, i told myself i was done with men. I spent a long time coming to terms that my hope for a family wasnt happening and took the time to rediscover and find me again..... then last year i found HIM and, my god, i was thrown......we have had a whirlwind of a relationship so far, i moved in after 2 months and since then we've made a home which i realise ive not had before......... i told him today id like to try to have a baby with him in the next 12 months or so, to prepare myself physically and mentally for treatment..... and his response melted me! ... it has made me feel so safe and supported and helped me realise its okay if my fertility issues mean we dont have a biological child and that hes gonna be there no matter what. So now ive realised he is it, and im going to propose to him on leap year! Ive got him a pendant with a promise engraved as i want us to choose rings together in the future. Ive booked us a hotel with a romantic meal, tickets for the theatre and a late check out ;), i dont know what im going to say yet and i hope you all dont mind this post, im just so excited and wanted to share with someone!!