But has no intention on marrying me. Our relationship is rocky he constantly threatens to break up with me. Should I give my newborn his last name? Why or why not ? He is saying he’s not going to claim her if I don’t. I tried to compromise and say well when we get married (bc until I became pregnant he always talked about marriage as if he wanted it) we can both change our names. But I don’t really care if he doesn’t want to claim her. But I do care what her last name is. We are currently still together of course and when things are good they’re great. Mostly. But he is saying he’s gonna take the week off when she’s born to get sober. Ugh. So he’s also told me his last GF that was pregnant had the baby vaginally and she was “too loose afterwards “ and he fell out of love with her bc he didn’t enjoy sex anymore. So I’m trying to have her by C-section to prevent this. Has anyone gone back to “ normal” after a vaginal birth? I’ve never had surgery or any medical procedure and I’ve only been with a handful of people. I don’t even use super tampons. Please help. What should I do? Have the c section and give her his last name? Or try to birth naturally (since he’s not gonna help me recover if he’s going thru withdrawals) and give her my name? Don’t bother telling me to leave him. I am choosing to stay with him for the time being despite our problems bc I love him. Thanks y’all