Low Libido since I could remember

Hey everyone?! I need some advice.

I’ve always had a lower desire for sex than my peers, I only have one friend that can relate to how I feel but we both have no resolution as of yet. It never was something that moved me & as a plus size girl growing up I didn’t want people to look at me as the “big girl that’s easy” but on top of that I never really had that urge to rush into sex let alone once I had sex a month before turning 17 it was not a big deal to me.

I have a boyfriend that I’ve been with for 3 years now and I’m in love and attracted to him and he’s attracted to me that has never changed. The conversation of my low sex drive has been brought up a few times I’ve said that my depression and anxiety and just not being happy where I’m at could be a cause on top of me always being this way, I’m in a good place in life now and I want to see what I should do that might help or supplements/vitamins to take that are safe to use with my birth control (NuvaRing). I am also not sure if my bc is a cause on top of my already low drive which I have used on and off from 17-21 & mostly used from 21-Now(23 ill be 24 in a month). Please help! I’d appreciate it seriously I don’t want this to eventually affect my relationship in the future.