Am I overreacting?

Last night, I was talking to my “situationship” about how I’m moving out of an abusive situation and how I felt like it meant we would be able to have sex more and spend more time together. We’ve been a thing on and off for a year but he says he doesn’t want to be together bc he thinks we have issues he wants corrected first. All he said was “yeah but I bet there’s some kind of catch tho. Like I’d have to come to you”. I immediately was like “wtf???” Because right now, I come to him every single time. And we’ve been having sex and hanging out at his house the whole time. Staying at his house for the night. Sometimes going over there days in a row. Or multiple times in a day. I said “so we’d just be done?” And he said no but that he doesn’t like leaving his house and how he feels bad leaving his cat. So he’d rather be in his own bed with his cat when he can. But then said “that’s not to say I wouldn’t stay with you or stay late sometimes tho”. I immediately started to feel like I just wasted a whole year since clearly the effort on his end is bare BARE minimum and just stopped responding. I feel like he just has excuses, like why we can’t be together after a year. I did that a couple times and now he wants an “explanation of why”. But I just wanna be done. Like I have balanced a toddler and abusive situation for you bc of how much I like you but you can’t do the same for me because of your fucking CAT??? Like no thanks then.