What are your views

Been with partner 7years have 3yr old child together.

I do all the shopping,cooking,childcare,cleaning.

I also work. Partner works self employed (hit and miss) generally one or two days a week but sometimes nothing for months and summer maybe 3days a weeks.

I ask him opinions on what he would like to eat for dinner! My theory is I run out of ideas and would like an input. I don’t ask all the time but when I’m bored of cooking and eating same things I ask what he would like! Now for some reason this bothers him beyond normality.

Ends in a row and hun not eating anything at all.

He states he don’t know what he wants to eat and I should just cook whatever I want.

I respond that I don’t know what I want and would like some ideas etc

He turns this in to a row and says by me asking him it makes him not want to eat!!!

Am I being stupid for asking? I can’t see that I’m doing anything wrong yet I’m made to feel like an awful person for asking!

Am I going mad?