Advice needed husband is DL

Been with my husband for 14 years and recently discovered he was bisexual. We had a brief separation a couple years ago that lasted for about 3 weeks or so… he was on a dating app talking to men …lots of explicit convo between him and other men while we were separated…I come from a very religious family so that was just a no for me growing up.

However as an adult I grew to not judge others and what they choose to do….but that doesn’t mean I have to live the lifestyle or with someone who does…..we all have choices right? I don’t disrespect anyone ..heterosexual or homosexual it’s not who I am to throw stones for whatever reason ..

He at first denied it then he admitted he had sexual contact with a man before in his late teens but that was it and it doesn’t make him bisexual to have sexual thoughts of another man when he is in a dark place…..He is more angry at me for knowing about his sexuality than anything. I told him we needed some time just to figure things out.

Fast forward . I guess I did not let that get in between us because I stayed with him. It was hard at first because again I never knew and I didn’t want him to cheat on me with ANYONE man or female. The thing that bothers me is that he still denies it and says he’s not bisexual . He even bashes other gay men and trans people on tv or outside like it really bothers him.

It makes me so mad because why are you talking about them let them live ! They aren’t bothering you? I feel like he is projecting and it really makes me mad. He gets mad at me for telling him to stop bashing trans women and gay men. He says things like I don’t wanna see that shit blah blah blah but in the back of my mind I’m like wait a minute but you are bisexual why are you acting like this bothers you?

He gets soooooo angry and upset and makes me feel bad because I don’t want him bashing others sexuality . I don’t know what to do. It’s like he’s living a lie and wants to keep what I discovered about him in the past and forget I know.

It just makes me not trust him