I had a fight with my partner last Saturday we been together for almost 8 years and have a 2 year old and i have a son from a previous relationship, well even tho he’s the main provider he does not help at all in the house or with our daughter his mom has him so brainwashed that all he has to do is work and nothing else , well last Saturday I was really over whelmed trying to clean the house fold laundry and wash my daughters bottles and he was just on TikTok watching videos and our daughter was on her high chair and as I’m washing bottles my daughter wanted her Gatorade and I asked him if he could give her it and he said aren’t you closer ? I said oh don’t worry let me stop washing bottles don’t bother urself so what he does is take her off the high chair while she’s still eating which automatically upsets me and I tell him just give me her and he doesn’t he tries to pull her from me and gets all on my face so I had a cup of water and threw it on him just the water not the cup so he can back off so he slaps my arm to drop the cup off my hand and it just got super bad with the yelling and as usual he calls his mom to tell her everything which made me more upset like here we go again with him telling her our business and that lady feeling entitled to tell me what to do I have never disrespected his mom but I told her I’m tired of doing everything alone and she said well my son already does his part in working he shouldn’t be helping you at all and I told her Every man works doesn’t mean they stop being a dad and she said what about ur son why don’t u ask him ? I said my son is doing homework and it’s not his responsibility to help w my daughter it’s her dads responsibility to help out and I told her last year I cut you off for always talking to me sideways and getting involved and you said to make peace and that moving forward you weren’t gonna get involved anymore but here you go again and just by that she said I was being disrespectful to her , well I gave him the phone back and told him to leave so he called his friend and left , In what I thought would be for both of us to cool off well I was wrong he left and didn’t come back until 7am the next morning he turned off his location , when he showed up in the morning I was super mad that he didn’t come to sleep and we got into it again and again he left w that friend when he came back and got ready for work I had a feeling to look thru his phone just for the fact that he didn’t come to sleep and in the deleted messages there was a video that the guy he was with sent him I didn’t get to see the entire video cause he was almost out the bathroom but it was the friend having sex with a girl and the other deleted text said crystal says hi , so I ask him who were you with Saturday ? He said just his friend and his friend two friends that he just meet (guys) without letting him know what I saw and I said ur lying u just got caught u have to go for good , and he didn’t even try to defend himself or ask anything he left and after work he came to pick up his clothes that I threw in the trash and to get his car and he came with that friend I changed the lock they tried to open a window and couldn’t and now he’s at his moms hasn’t called or anything in my gut I know he cheated and he was possibly in that sex video I regret not watching the entire video now I will never know but just the fact that the guy told him oh crystal says hi it’s obvious he was with a crystal that Saturday for me there’s no going back I will not be able to trust him anymore and that will always be in the back of my head , am I jumping to conclusions? Or would that also be a deal breaker for you ?