What would you do?

What would you do?

Period is super irregular and I was diagnosed with PCOS. Did bloods before I started trying with my first, no PCOS showed or anything on my bloods to be concerned about. TTC for 3 months and fell pregnant. Been trying for a year for my second, period and cycle lengths all over the shop. 28,35,49,78 ect.

According to my CM and opk’s I’m ovulating and bdancing on these days. My period is technically ‘late’ again but 4 days but not holding it accountable as it does its own thing. Negative pregnancy tests.. what do I do here? Leave it and wait for my period? I had spotting 9DPO but none since and no positive tests.

I’m now wondering if that spotting was my period, I just have no idea what my body’s doing and I have gone to see the doc and she has asked for bloodwork when I get this period but it’s either super late or not coming or I’ve had it and misplaced it for spotting (highly doubt it)!

I’m super frustrated cause I wanted an 18 month gap max and I and kicking myself I didn’t go doc sooner but I had no issues with my first.

Any advise on what I should do? Is it possible I ovulated later even though I got positive tests and CM. Any advise would be greatly appreciated, a hurting mum who hates the fact it’s an extra month gap between my daughter and future baby.