I'm 28 weeks pregnant. I had mentioned to my husband the other day that after this baby I really want to focus on losing weight. I had seen a video about lipo and tummy tuck. I told him I wanted to lose weight the right way but if my lower roll doesn't shrink as I lose weight I wanted lipo and tummy tuck. He didn't say anything really about it that day. A few days go by he tells me to have weight lose surgery. I have always been bigger. I was 292 when I met him. Now I'm 322. I gained the weight over the past few years. I have a 2 year old plus I gained 14 pounds in this pregnancy. Well, we got in a yelling match today over stupid shit. He has never mentioned my weight in the 5 years we been together. Well, today he said I was really fat and gross. I'm fuckin pregnant. I was starting to lose weight when I found out I was pregnant but since being pregnant I haven't worried about weight. He says I'm using being pregnant as an excuse to be lazy. I work 32-40 hours just on the weekend. I do doubles too. I'm a CNA. I'm very active with my job. I'm always walking, lifting people, and etc. He is laid off the next 2 weeks so I'm picking up way more shifts and it's stressful on my body. Doctors already told me I have a short cervix and I'm taking progesterone for it. I don't deserve to be treated this way. Smfh. Yet this man gained almost 70 pounds since we been together. He did go down 20 pounds but he still isn't skinny himself. I know I'm fat I don't need anyone putting it in my face especially while being pregnant.