So I’m dating a guy I really like - it’s been 3 months.

We go out to a bar/lounge last night with his male cousin. A couple of attractive females are checking out my guy as we all stood near the bar; they kept turning around and stealing glances at my guy, and my guy was looking back. I said “those girls are checking you out.” He says, “yeah they keep looking at me.” Then he asks “would you mind if I be my cousin’s wing man tonight and help him with girls?” And I replied, “what do you mean exactly?” And he says, “like say hi to the girls and tell them, “hey my cousin likes you, he thinks you’re pretty…”” —Everyone, we’re all in our 30s (me, my guy and his cousin). Is this ridiculous or what? Am I the asshole for being offended he would ask me if he can “help his cousin talk to girls” while I’m there and out with him??

I literally don’t know how to feel right now…

When he asked, I visibly showed I was upset by my facial expressions and He apologized. Do you think I should take the apology and just be cautious/observant with him moving forward?

Or is this a serious red flag..? 🚩 If so, what should I say to him to address this when we finally have a chance to speak over the phone about it later today? 😭 I don't know how to even address this but I feel so offended!