I’ve been married 10 years and with hubby for 14 years. We have no children, although we want them. We had a miscarriage 6 years ago almost.

For at least the past 6 years, our sex life has been non existent. I’ve spoken with him about it and it improves a little then goes back to how it was. He has some issues staying hard, and he is very overweight but doesn’t actively do anything to help himself. 11 months ago I decided I’d had enough and lost 4.5 stone, making me eligible for <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> and within a healthy BMI range.

I’m late 30s I’m now at the point where I don’t know what to do. We don’t have a sexually fulfilling relationship and therefore having sex for procreation is simply out of the question. I feel like I need to end the marriage and go find myself a sperm donor so I don’t live with any regrets.

What would you do? I am going to suggest marriage counselling. I don’t want to give a time limit or ultimatum but I feel like time is running out for me.

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