How do I catch my husband cheating?

Feel free to tell me I am going crazy. I promise I will listen to you guys. I’m trying to be level headed but it is just a little too odd.

So about two weeks ago I found a pair of women’s socks in my house. Not mine. We haven’t had friends over. We haven’t had family over. No idea how these socks got into our house.

THEN just today I found pink stuff smeared on my shower wall. Just a small smudge.

I don’t use products with dyes. My kids don’t have any shower products with dies. I have no idea where this pink smudge of what looks like conditioner came from.

When I took a shower this morning it wasn’t there.

Sooooo now I am convinced someone is coming to my house when I am not here. (my husband works from home).

How do I find out if someone is coming here?

I want to buy and set up a camera outside but my husband would find it in a heart beat!!!

Casey : My children are 3 and 1, so no school and not from friends. The socks are women’s professional ones. We don’t have family that lives in the same state as us. We haven’t seen family since Christmas and we went to see them this year rather than them come here. We don’t go to the laundry mat.