Does this sound like he’s still guilty?

Question

On Valentine’s Day I found out my fiancé of 7 years was cheating on me… mean while I was 6 months pregnant. 
This is how he acts every time I ask for ￼ reassurance or tell him to be good…
￼I don’t think it should be a problem with needing it but most of the time he either ignores it or snaps at me… 
It’s still very fresh to me it didn’t even happen 3 months ago yet…
Ladies or men how do I go about this? Should I just leave it alone? It makes me feel like he’s still up to no good 🥺rant

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If you’re going to forgive someone for infidelity , completely forgive them and don’t bring it up  but that’s if that person is willing to do every single thing to regain that trust  
  
 This man isn’t willing to go extra mile to reassure you or rebuild that trust so I would highly suggest parting ways and healing 
 The worst thing you want to do seal the deal with marriage… and this my girl is NOT someone you want to spend the rest of your life with , you already got 7 years in why sign up for 7 more

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baby he doesn’t care about your feelings. he is annoyed by them. that’s all you need to know. he knows what he did every time you make a comment and prefers you just shut up about it. that is cruel.

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You deserve better, he doesn’t like to take accountability from the sounds of it if you don’t mind me asking what was it he did?

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I don’t know about guilty, but it 1000% sounds like he doesn’t like you deep down. He cheated & couldn’t be bothered to try to make it work. I would bet he’s only holding on because breaking up & finding a new place to live is too much work.

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I’m sorry you’re experiencing this, especially so close to having a baby. But I think everyone in this comment section summed up what you need to hear. He doesn’t care to try and make it work, doesn’t care about your feelings, and gaslights you into thinking you’re the crazy one when he’s the one that cheated. This is not a healthy relationship, or a person that you will be happy with. He only stayed because leaving is a hassle. You should take steps to separate and leave him for good.

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Why you still with him.. toxic relationship. Do yourself an your child a fever and get out. You will never want your child to be with a jeans scumbag so why are you. You don't trust him there is no trust. If you weren't pregnant would you still be with them probably not so why are you now. Do you want your child to grow thinking that  toxic relationship is it good relationship. It's time for you to stop being a child but one foot in front of the other get yourself into therapy so you can see all the s*** that's going on is bad for you. Every time he goes out you're always going to have in the back of your head that he's cheating.

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I hope you left him ❤️

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Aww honey, im sorry you are going through this. You deserve better love. I dont think you will be able to forgive him. Then asking for reassurance seems to be a sensitive topic for him. If you want to make it work you are going to work on trusting him. Leave the past in the past because if you keep asking for reassurance, the past will always meddle in your future. If you dont think you can forgive him and start fresh, then its time to really think about is this what you want for your future.

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Telling someone to “be good” is pointless. It’s not going to make him do better or not. If he’s going to cheat, simply telling him to “be good” isn’t going to stop him. If he wants to cheat, he’s going to do it regardless of what you tell him. Stop telling him that because I could see why it’d be annoying. You guys need to work on your trust with each other or break up. Go to counseling if you have to. Tell him that if he gives you reassurance without being asked you’ll tell him to stop being good and asking for reassurance.

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Am I just being crazy? And the pregnancy hormones are getting the best of me? Or am I being reasonable? I’m about to have a baby in 22 days

Does this sound like he’s still guilty?

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