Did I just get too serious?

My friend is quite playful and I was on the phone with her today. I told her that my baby cries a lot and she heard her making a noise and said “just shove the bottle in her mouth” but before I could respond she said just kidding. And laughed. I said I’ll shove a bottle in your mouth before I shove it in her. She said calm down I was just kidding and I said yeah but watch your fucking mouth. She said ok I’m about to hang up on you, I said BYE! And she said bye and hung up.

I feel really bad like I overreacted to such a silly joke and went aggressive on my friend but at the same time her joke wasn’t funny and why would I shove a bottle in my child’s mouth? someone lmk if it’s me or her.