my 13m old daughter goes to her dad's house Fridays for a couple hours . Today she comes back and her pigtails on both sides of her head were cut off . As well as they added barrettes on the pigtails that already had beads on it .

I noticed as soon as she got out the car . I asked what happened and he played dumb and say I sent her that way . After almost 30 min of arguing he said his gf did it . That she asked him if she could "do her hair " and he said yes not supervising . She cut them to turn them into "edges".

I have not met his gf. They have been together only 2 months . I wasn't the type of BM that says I have to meet the new woman , or wont send my kids over because the father has a gf.

But now I'm debating sending her over there. He won't even let me confront her .

What sould I do ?

I don't have a before picture but this is how she came back .

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@tommi - I can't confront her how am I supposed to get her to understand 😭😭 & yea its probably just the "honeymoon phase" thats keeping him interested for now.

@ashley- I'm beyond pissed. Id pop up at his house but Idk when she'll be there & i'm not trying to go to jail !

@nadia- right ! "Making her edges" doesn't even sound right . My daughter had pretty hair . I hate to be that mother that keeps the dad away. He barely gets to see her already.

@daesha- what proof do I have ? And police probably would not take me (the case) seriously. I don't know the girl name or what she look like . A mess.

@lily- that's a thing ? Thankyou . I will look into that tomorrow.

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