“He’s just a friend” but is he?
Tl;dr - I have a boyfriend, but last night my drunk guy friend said he wishes he made a move on me when I was single. I love him as a friend & nothing more. Any opinions welcome.
Hi this is about my “he’s just a friend”. To start, I am in the best relationship. My boyfriend is perfect & I feel so safe and loved by him. He is my person and I love him very much. We met in Dec 2021.
My guy friend Tommy & I met August 2019. He is very fun and we bonded right away! We had slight mutual crushes on each other for a few weeks, but never did anything and have made it very clear that we’re strictly platonic. We also would never work out dating bc we want and value different things. He’s been in great relationships during our friendship.
We’ve remained very close friends throughout the years and have a lot of love for each other. Still though, he doesn’t compare to my bf. It’s weird that sometimes my brain wishes we kissed back when we met or wishes that we did more than just stay friends. Almost to get it out of my system? Fast forward to last night, he was drunk and saying he also wishes we kissed and he made a move on me when we were single. He also said we would have fun together if we were single. He felt bad for saying it bc I’m in a relationship, but I’d rather him be honest. He knows how happy I am with my bf.
Anyway, I do love him but I just can’t love him the way I love my bf & would never break up with my bf for him. I would also never cheat on my bf for him because he truly is just my friend. I don’t really have a question, but if anyone has experienced something similar or wants to share opinions, please do.
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