Want to keep expectations

Hello all,

Me and my husband are wanting to start trying. I want to keep my expectations in check, because I don’t want to get my hopes up, so I guess I am wanting to know; at 23 y/o (both of us) how long would it normally take for us to conceive? How likely would we conceive on the first month of trying? I know most people don’t get pregnant the first time trying, but I have so many friends who have, so I’m trying to keep my expectations about how quick they conceived in check