Is my boyfriend toxic and 🚩?

Question

Together for 6 months i am 22 he’s 21

-he thinks of us as a couple as a whole person and wants to do everything together

-when i say everything i mean literally.He is not okay with me going at night to dinner with my girls because he thinks that i want to  look single

-he is okay with me going out only at lunch time because is ,,safe??” but my friends work or just prefer to go out at night (8,9pm) and i cant go out because he is not okay with it

-Also i am not talking about night clubs and stuff i mean casual dinner.

-we are both medical students and he works night shifts and i also wanted to start working at the same hospital and he told me that i would work there ONLY IF WE ARE BOTH THE SAME NIGHT SHIFTS,otherwise it wouldn’t be appropriate for me to work night shifts alone with other doctors😀😀😀

-and last but not least, i haven’t slept at his place for like weeks because we both have exams and i study 24/7 so atm we don’t have sex.Next weekend i have planned to go with my mother on 3 day trip and yesterday he got mad that this is our first free weekend and i could have made plans with him instead going with my mom….and he sais that me going with my mother on a sea trip ,,open relationship “ and told me:,, so i will go to a trip with whoever i want if you want to be in this kind of open relationship” and i am talking about me going with my mom not some random guy.

I tried talking to him about with and he said that he will stop and i gave him another chance and after yesterday the situation with my mom i don’t know i told him to fuck off but i am kinda worried that i will be alone now and i just want to find my person

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Run!

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Controlling. Crazy behavior especially only six months in. Move on. Congrats on medical school!

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You should leave now and not waste anymore time with this guy. Trust me his behavior will get more toxic and abusive over time

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Girl…you’re in med school. You are far from unintelligent. You obviously see the red flags. He is showing you who he is. Believe him! That’s extremely controlling c crazy behavior for only dating for 6 months.

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His crazy, sexist, controlling behavior will only get worse the longer you stay! Break up now for your own safety/sanity. You are 22, and have only been dating 6 months, if he is this comfortable being this controlling so early, I can only imagine how he would behave a year or two in when he thinks he has you “trapped.”

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He’s toxic. It will only get worse from here. It’s ok to be single. He isn’t the one. You are your own person and you can do your own things without him. Break up with him!!!

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I think you posted about him before. He's crazy controlling and abusive, you're not going to be alone forever. There's roughly 3.5 billion men on this planet, he will probably end up alone if he doesn't stop this crazy behaviour. Honestly this isn't going to get any better and you should be able to see whoever you want whenever you want.

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My big thumb hit “over protective” but I was trying to vote “he’s controlling”. It’s only been 6 months, you are young as hell.. please break up & move on. None of this is normal & will absolutely escalate over time.

Is my boyfriend toxic and 🚩?

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