My newborn just turned a month and we have a 2 yr old. Our newborn isn’t sleeping that much during the night since his days & nights are mixed up but I obviously can’t sleep during the day. Our toddler doesn’t really take naps anymore so that’s super hit & miss.

My husband stopped helping me about 3 days after my emergency c section and hasn’t done anything besides maybe feed our newborn twice in a month.

This mama is exhausted from doing everything alone. I’m making all our meals from scratch, the laundry, everything household plus take care of the kids. Plus my husband just leaves to do whatever he wants with friends or whoever.

How do you get your husband to help?? I’ve asked my MIL if she could watch our toddler and she said she was busy but that maybe, maybe the 15 hours I’ve had in almost 4 days is plenty of sleep. I don’t have a village. I just need my husband to help and he’s never seemed to stick with anything help wise. Am I alone in doing everything myself?