When husband says his friends don't

Every time my husband doesn't want to help me with the home or kids he will mention his friends don't. He will say things like so and so doesn't have to do dishes or so and so never changed a kids diaper.

I've always worked plus been home with the kids. We have three kids back to back but I had high risk pregnancies meaning bed rest. Now I'm not pregnant nor plan on anymore but my hands are still full. I'm officially just a stay at home mom now without having to work but I'm busy.

I do all the cooking cleaning and child related stuff with the exception of sometimes I ask for help with moving laundry to the dryer (I put it all away) or help with dishes or sometimes I ask him to make sandwiches for dinner. I do all the deep cleaning food prep and grocery shopping.

I get tired of the comments of so and so doesn't ask his wife if he can go out. The man works full time plays sports has a social life. The times I say no is if we already had plans or he has left me with all the kids for a couple weeks without a break.

I started snapping back on him that yes so and so does have more freedom but they don't have as many children also they have help from family we don't. When that stopped working I started saying yes and so and so's wife also has a nanny a maid and did you see she got a vacation paid for by her husband and a new vehicle. It usually stops his sulking then.

I'm exhausted by my husband and his dated views on a husband doesn't change diapers or make a sandwich or God forbid put away dishes. I signed up for a partner. He stopped celebrating mother's day saying I'm not his mom. He doesn't't appreciate me at all. My best friend told me multiple times how worried she was for me (not because I vent because I don't talk about my Martial issues) because she's seen his behavior and how I deserve better. I know it isn't just my views.

I'm tired.... I'm run down...