*thanks for the answers. All is great advice. If this is my ex, he’s going against the EPO. The judge told me he is not to contact me in any way. That is why I’m wanting to know and find out.

I have a stalker. I feel this is my last hope. I have mostly only dated online, and NEVER AGAIN. I will not even be dating in general ever again.

I have two sons. My youngest’s father, I have an EPO on. I caught him being inappropriate with our son. My oldest sons father, the state police told me not order one because they think he could go off on me and an EPO won’t protect me 24/7. I should have went ahead and got it. But I was and still am terrified of him and listened to the police’s advice. He posts he doesn’t want kids or to be a parent all over Reddit. He put a picture of an ultrasound of my oldest with a banner on it that said in memory of. He. Scared. Me. And still does because he’s clearly not stable. And he would show me how he got on the dark web and that’s is some scary shit. So again, I’m scared. Never again and I do not suggest online dating.

My oldest is almost 6 now and my youngest is 1 and a half.

I’m trying to not make a long post but I am scared. The police do not care. Trust me, they don’t care and I no longer trust them after things I’ve been going through recently.

My friend said she got a message from this guy David claiming he had some belongings of my late fiancé’s. (He died early 2019) I asked what his last name was and for a screenshot.

I told my mom and my mom had gotten a friend request from this “David.” The only friend “David” has is my friend. So it’s recently created. The birth year is the same of my youngest’s father- the one I have an EPO on. I recognized the last name. When my youngest’s father and I got back together the end of 2023, he showed me a message from another fake account of the same name that messaged my friend. The message told my ex to stay away from me and that I used this “David” as a donor in 2018. (Um, I don’t even personally know a David.)

I’m scared. I had someone break into my apartment a few months ago. I don’t think they even caught who it was. Thank GOD we were not home. It may have ended up really bad had we been home.

This is what they wrote my friend

Their profile pic is also creepy as it’s Lucifer falling from heaven.

This person is asking about my friends kids too, so it’s someone who knows she has kids. I feel it’s my youngest’s father.

I have a suspect list on who this could be. If someone could help me or redirect me to how I can find out who this person is, I’d greatly appreciate it. I don’t know where else to go for help. The police will just tell me to ignore it.

I can email or try to message on here if I can figure out how. I can send all the info in a message that you need if I can get it. I’m not very tech smart. I’d like to get an idea on who this is.