I have one child (6). Before we could have another child I was diagnosed with a serious disease that requires me to be on medication that isn't safe to have a baby while taking. All 3 treatment options I cannot get pregnant while taking and I need to treat the disease so , no more kids. My husband is happy with this and doesn't want to anymore after the stress of all this, I'm still sad about it but I've accepted it.

People are so nasty to me about being a mom of one. Telling me I am selfish , even had someone tell me I'm not a real mom because I gave up before it got hard. Strangers always ask me why only one and say my son will be lonely. Family members who don't know about my situation ask and ask and ask when I'm having more.

Do I just tell these people I can't have more or do I just say it's none of their business? I feel like both responses have gotten me rude remarks or attitude or the worst is unwanted medical advice. How do you handle the constant hatred and comments ?