Ok so my ex and I seperated.

We have a child together.

I'm interested in dating again.

I'm sure he knows I have a tinder profile by now, I haven't seen him because he's out of my scope. (He's 15 years older than me and I set my settings at max 10 years older)

He demands that I inform him about any possible date I'm going on.. now, I've seen how he handles that with his ex. He used it against her so I told him from the start I'm not doing that.

Today he dropped off my kid, with his kids because he was driving them to his ex's afterwards and with the kids there he told me he had a date from before and I wished him good luck. He reminded me of the agreement (he has before) I told him that I didn't agree to it. Now he's telling me he wants our signed co-parenting agreement changed and he won't sign unless it's in there.

This is so terribly exhausting.

I feel that's a serious invasion of my privacy.

I felt it was important that we meet new people before they meet our child but I really don't want to be giving him every interaction with a male.. like hell no... Like he wants to know if I have one night stands as well, which is in private territory and never in co-parent territory in my book.

He would also like to know like if and when I talk to other men but I'm not giving him that information.