So it’s been almost 2 years since I’ve dated anyone since coming out of a toxic relationship. I’ve met this guy online who reached out to me and we started talking texting then we exchanged numbers. He started with the compliments ask if I wanted more kids because he wants kids (he doesn’t have any) he’s iv and says he desires a boy to carry on his legacy. Conversation was good, he then sorta gave me a disclaimer that “he’s a bad communicator” how he’s busy with work and his business so bare with him. So I was just observing, his communication via texting is terrible but when we speak on the phone is magical. He’s a very odd guy, I’m accustomed to good morning text and check ups during the day, shows affection even when it’s via text. I voiced that commons very big for me and he told me he’s trying but I this is playing with me mentally, he’s emotionally unavailable. We have a 1st date planned in a couple days broom out of state. Hey says I’m needed which I don’t think so at all and he’s trying to manipulate me making me feel crazy !! He said that he doesn’t want to create a monster because he fiddles in the past! Should I wait for the physical date, forget about him .. I’m really confused. Oh and on top of this is day two that he hasn’t reached out anc today is his birthday!!!!!! Some advice ladies 🤔