So two of my daughters ages 7 and 10 want to throw me a baby shower (I'd be doing) they would just pick the theme and of course help. I did tell them that i wasnt going to have one and after the first baby its not appropriate. The issue is we just went to a baby shower and it was thier 4th baby and my girls said they want to celebrate thier baby brother like thier friends got to. Is it tacky having a baby celebration party not shower and just request no gifts? I really dont want one but i understand why my girls thought the baby shower they went to was awesome. My 10 yr old said all babies should be celebrated. I offered a party with just us but they want to invite thier grandparents aunts/uncles, and a friend or 2.