I’ve been with my boyfriend for 9 months. We recently moved in together. Throughout our relationship I have questioned our compatibility and whether to break up or not. I overthink a lot so it hasn’t been easy for me to know what is the right decision. I love him, and I would feel sad and empty without him. At the same time I question how our future looks together. He has showed me some sides of him that I don’t like. For example, he is insecure, a bit controlling, immature, not good with money and irresponsible. I struggle to see a bright and happy future for me with him when he acts like this. I have told him about some of these things and how it bothers me, but I have yet to see change. I don’t know if these are qualities he can change/improve, or if it’s just better to not waste anymore time. Lately I have found myself thinking about if it’s the right time to break up, how my life would look like if I was single, if he’s the right man for me, if our future looks good together, etc.