Recently had second miscarriage that was like reliving a nightmare times 100. Recently as in I just got cleared yesterday from having a d&c. My husband has been counting down the days to this appointment in expectance to have sex. Of course my appointment made me emotional so I got a pass. I felt pressure to not let him down again but when it came down to it I burst into tears. Thinking how the last time we had sex we made a baby. Also, I just don't feel sexual. I don't feel comfortable having him down there. I feel like I'm being selfish but I've had SO much happen to my body over the last month I just want it to be left alone.

Is that wrong of me?

It's been 4 months since we've had sex. Longest we've ever gone but it's literally been doctors orders this entire time...up until til now.

Our marriage is already struggling and I know he "needs this connection" but I feel like I need more time.